When life goes south and you’re feeling crappy, there is one thing you should do in order to keep going: do something to lift up your mood.
Life is a constant struggle, but we’re all warriors and warriors don’t give up on life. We will fight until our last breath, won’t we?
So just in case you need a mood lifter but have no idea what to do, hereby I share the top 10 list of things and activities in my personal “amusement park”, the introverts way:
- Coffee or jasmine tea. Work best in many occasions.
- A long walk: self reflection time.
- Writing a journal or a blog post. Writing is indeed therapeutic for me.
- Art and craft. I love making clay dolls and paper quilling. It is true that crafting reduces anxiety and depression.
- Muay thai training. Angry at someone? Punching, kicking, elbowing a sand sack work like magic. Release all that negative energy in a hardcore way without doing something that you might regret later.
- Meeting old friends. I have a small circle of friends who have been my besties since more than two decades ago. We don’t meet often, but once we do, it feels so fulfilling.
- 1920’s music. Three words for it: awesome, awesome and awesome. Yes, I’m talking about Glenn Miller, Ruth Etting, Duke Ellington, Boswell Sisters and many more. It’s so calming and liberating at the same time. As someone who grew up in the 90’s, sometimes I think I was born in a wrong era.
- Old TV series: Friends, Will and Grace and of course, Sex and The City. Can’t get enough of them.
- Hiking. Well, I only hike occasionally. But it is one of my own grounding techniques actually. I find clarity by getting in touch with the nature. The trees, the lakes, the rivers, the leaves, the grass.. they tone my overwhelming feelings down.
- Instagram. Oh I am a sucker for phone-photography. I take pictures wherever I go then post it in my IG. Somehow, taking and editing photos reduced my anxiety and when someone likes my photo or even feature it in their hub, it feels like a positive reinforcement to keep creating something better even when things get worse. My IG account is @ingrid_jo, by the way. Please feel free to visit 🙂